Hot and cold behaviors, moody people get me really bad. Due to my childhood where I learned to watch and tiptoe around my parents and their unpredictable tantrums, I have the habit of noticing people’s moods and reacting to them – which obviously isn’t my responsibility.
I am a moody person myself. But then how do I communicate to other traumatized people that it’s not their fault and spare them the emotional terror?
“Love”, or whatever it is, always happens when I least expect it!
Traumatized people always find each other. If you find me, you have problems.
I’m obsessed with the “creating different worlds” lately. It could be understood in so many ways!
I have to credit myself in my thesis. I myself can’t imagine how I pushed through the worst period of my life.
After the worst nightmare, many problems have become so minor. “Are people still talking about their conflicts with their roommates?!”
Damn brain, why is it so easy to think black-and-white?! I hate this binary way of thinking. Just stop seeing things in the “me vs them”, but “we/us”. No one is actively trying to hurt you. Just take it as the range of colors it is.
People who get it get it.
I can stretch my brain from brilliantly dumb to extremely dumb.
If everyone (and I) can get this very principle idea ‘everyone is EQUALLY beautiful in and out’, neither jealousy nor possessiveness could ever exist.
Black Friday is a real evil.
18.11 is World’s Toilet Day.
A wanderer living with mininum belongings vs. a rich family man with big houses and cars, who is happier? The answer is neither, because it is not a competition of who is the happiest. Each person is conditioned to have certain desires and enjoy a certain things. No one’s happiness is the better kind of happiness.
Isn’t it interesting that there are people who tend to hold on to their own beliefs despite all the changes happen around them?